Still not sure exactly what you want, but you can take the contralateral coordinates for most template spaces (MNI variants, TLRC) approximately by negating the x coordinate (RAI or LPI order). So if you are interested in a coordinate at (10,100,100), then you can also look at (-10,100,100). The human brain is only approximately symmetric, so you might consider a sphere around each point. See 3dUndump for placing spheres. Also consider using the left and right regions from an atlas. whereami can provide the mask regions, or you can specify atlas regions with 3dcalc. See our class documentation for ROIs below (pages 30,31,35).
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